Hello everyone!
A few days ago I heard a convo between two friends. They wanted to be in a relationship with anyone just for staying cool. After all , it's a matter of 2 years and then everything will end with the end of their college lives. After hearing their convo I was shocked. And this blog is all about those things which came into my mind after hearing their words.
Have you ever witnessed the feeling of leaving things undone with someone and that really eats you up in the middle of the night? Imagine you are just laying down on your bed, after a tiring day at work, and you listen to that song, that used to be their favourite song as well?
Have you ever witnessed a dream where you see them and all of a sudden when the dream breaks, your heart aches a little? Your heart aches because things are no longer the same and they are no longer with you.
Have you ever noticed how much their presence as well as absence have impacted your life? But now you have started to accept the fact after all everything happens for a reason.
Have you ever experienced that feeling of being betrayed? Those promises, those dreams which you both have weaved together have been crushed badly.And the worst part is that you are shattered completely but you can't even make noise. It’s just supposed to be suffering in silence.
But you know what one day someone will come to fall in love with you again. They will help you drag your bag which is full of if's, could's and maybe's. Life will not become a cakewalk with them but in that person you will find that missing part of yourself which you were searching for in everyone.
I hope you get the love you deserve. Trust the process. Love is a beautiful feeling. And loving someone is a beautiful journey. Our generation needs to understand this. Somewhere between hookups and one night stands the real meaning of LOVE is mistaken.
Giving each other expensive gifts and sharing every detail of your day with someone is OK but find yourself a person who understands you and your circumstances. A person who appreciates your journey and respects your hardwork instead of yelling at you just because you slept last night.
Being in a relationship these days is so easy. But I hope you are not staying in a relationship just for the sake of staying cool.