Here we go.! What's self awareness ?
Need to remind all of you one thing that self awareness is not something your really careful and conscious about.. It is something that you constantly remind yourself about the boundaries that you set for yourself and make sure that you stay with that limit and lead your life in according to your way.! You concentrate on your actions, emotions or thoughts.
A person with self awareness will constantly remind how you set your emotions, thoughts and manage your behavior.
From childhood you groom yourself in a imaginary world and assume how perfect your life is or its going to be in future.. But the reality is something different.. It shouldn’t be the case we all need to be exposure to real world and get to know what exactly it is to be outside world. Self awareness is not something you inculcate after being an adult.. If we are groomed about the fact of reality from childhood.! Its going to do a fantastic job. Most people fail because of not being self confident enough to face the reality..
Adding on a little quote: “She was one of my closest friend but things went bad".. He was my first boss, but we lost touch.. We dated for sometime but the goodbye was heartbreaking.. As we grow older.. As we set clear boundaries.. As we stand up for ourselves.. We tend to lose people, we thought we never would. But the truth is we don't lose real friends, real opportunities or real relationships.. We just lose manipulators, control freaks and people who don't have best interest in us.! And losing such people is not a loss.. Its a blessing.!
Things change and people change time to time. Real things will always be by your side. Always keep one thing in your mind.. If you are good enough in society, You will always have people by your side. I have been through a lot of hard things in my life.. I am 23 and I know exactly how this universe work.. You get to learn from your own experience and build it in your life.. People can guide you and provide moral support but at the end of the day its your family and friends who is gonna be by your side. Always learn to make a difference between “friends” and “Real friends”.
Be practical about what it is rather than how you imagine it to be.! Accept the reality and move forward in life.
