Hello people and welcome to another blog of mine and thank you for reading my previous ones.

Well, modern people have a modern problem of having a kind of multiple personalities or a kind of living two different lives at the same time. What makes them live to separate lives?

Actually its all because of all of us being confined in a limit provided with us a smartphone to connect us to the virtual world. Just like you know many people in real life too but you actually forget about them while you are going through candlemonk and looking at it's nice community.

So, we are keeping these two of our personalities separate and we automatically change according to the people without our knowledge. I observed that when I think about myself alone, I make many resolutions to bring changes in my attitude to make myself look cooler and a bit more serious(most boys want to😅) but as soon as I be with my friends, I become a 5 year old kid and when I leave them, I feel weird at having behaved that way in front of them, as if I say to myself in complete disappointment, “what the hell had happened to you?”

So, people have separate personal and public life, and interchange accordingly. So, no matter how deep your thoughts are in your blogs, you still might just be a small child for your family members.

That actually happens more to introverts like me, who like to have a separate personal life with no interference from that so outside world. No matter how much I personally know about the world, no matter how many problems I think I have, I just don't care whether people believe it or not, because mostly people don't. So, mostly people like me prefer to maintain the boundaries of our seperate personalities.

If people think that I am an idiot, I am not going to try to prove that I am smart because the only person I need to answer is myself.

Now, wouldn't it be a great burden to just bear all the pains and problems alone without anyone's support? Well, it can sometimes hurt but it gives you a lot of strength and also pride for you valuing yourself. The more you think and try to solve your own problems alone, more you become wise, and its almost rare to for someone in these times to gain wisdom.

The reason why this can prove to be a good step is that people today, think about there own gain more than anything else. People have got nothing to do with anyone's personal life but still take interest just for their own benefit or maybe just to make fun of them. Many times you'll find some particular people taking a lot of interest in your personal life without any apparent reason. Just stay aware and don't leak your personal information so easily, or you might have to repent.

It also happens that people personally change under the influence of people around them. That happens because they give importance to some of the people who, they think, are nice, even if they aren't. So, ask yourself and judge people ideally. Just because someone gets 5 marks more than you doesn't mean that they are intelligent, maybe you yourself had got just 30 or something and 35 wouldn't be a lot good.

Finally, one more thing, the most important person in your life is you yourself and not any single other freakin' person on the whole freakin' earth.

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