Hello Everyone,
Today in this Blog, I want to share some essential things in Parenting. Being a Parent is a very challenging duty for all of us. Almost every parent knew about Child rearing. But here I will give some essential things about how to raise a child. May this will help some parents.
The first important thing is to learn Say No to your Kids. For example, if Kid does not want to eat Rice, the mother immediately prepares Noodles for her kid. Those times we don't do like this. We should make them eat Rice. Parents should tell them, kid; first eat this rice mom already made for you. Please don't waste food. I will prepare your favorite dish at another time. Kids definitely will understand soon. It will help our Kids get a mind that accepts what is available.
The next thing is nothing comes easy. For example, if kids want to buy anything new, most parents get things for them immediately. Maximum parents are affordable for those things to bring. But some of us are not affordable. That time we should tell our kids, my dear, we don't have enough money to get that. I will bring that thing at some other time. Affordable parents will also tell their kids that if they get that thing they want, they should take good care of it. It will not come easily. Then the kids know the value of items or money.
To make Kids do their work. From the beginning, we have to give practice to our kids to do their job like folding their blankets, arranging the things they used to play with or study, washing plates which they eat, and some other help to parents, friends and elders too. It will help to our kids in the present and future.
Make your kids accept Failures. This is the most important thing. Every parent should teach this to their children. All of us expect Grade 1 from our kids. If they got that, that's good enough, but all our kids did not get grade 1. That time we should console our kids. Oh, my kid, do not worry. You will get it next time. We should give encouraging and motivating words to them. For the study, we will provide regular practice to them in reading, writing, etc.
Nowadays, kids are not mentally strong enough. They will make an unexpected decision if they face any losses. It will ruin their life and affect their family too. So we should make them for accepting failures.
Make them accept their mistakes. Every parent should tell their kids to admit their mistakes and do not conceal the truth. If our kids make any mistake, we immediately beat or scold them. For that, kids hide their mistakes and will tell a lie to us. Instead of this, first, we must ask kids what they have done, and please tell the truth to me. I will not scold you for what you did. Here after kids exposes their mistakes without any hesitation. Only then will we teach and make our kids to understand their mistakes and not repeat this.
From the beginning, we should teach all the things that will make our kids good, loyal, obedient, mentally strong, and so on. It is a little challenging to take all the stuff in the adult period of our child. But as a parent, we could make them recognize these all stuff.
Thank you all,