Hello guys. We had seen some people just enter the place and just light up the place. If you want to be charismatic, magnetic, attractive, and more confident, you are at the right blog. So today, in this blog, I will be sharing 7 tips for being an attractive person. If that sounds interesting, hit that heart button and leave your valuable comments in the comment box so that I can make it as perfect as possible. Let me repeat the question: how do I develop an attractive personality?
1) Conversation ratio
Every person tries to convey their happiness or sorrow to others. But it is difficult to find a person to listen to all our thoughts. But you could be that person. Listening is a magnetic and strange habit that an attractive person creates. It is a creative force. We all get close to people who listen to us. A perfect ratio would be 75% listening and 25% speaking. Do cultivate the art of active listening. Just nod your head while speaking.
Just respond to them by saying hmm, wow, amazing, superb, etc. Try to ask about what they have talked about. For example, if they talked about his or her cat, ask them about their cat, like, how is it?
Also try to avoid the "me too." The conversation is only about them and not about you. (I am not saying that to not talk about you.) (But let it be at your turn.) Just maintain kind eyes and a warm smile. And you’ll see people being attracted to you.
2) An ice-breaking joke
Famous actor Jim Carr once said," I become more attractive when I laugh at myself" No conversation is complete without leg-pulling and laughing. A person becomes truly charismatic when they confidently laugh at themselves. This shows that you are comfortable in your own skin. It relaxes the group to see the more human side of you. So don’t forget to have a good smile for yourself.
3) Name card
In Egyptian mythology, Ra, the sun god, had to walk through the darkness and fight monsters. The monsters couldn’t attack him because he knew their true names. And this is the trick. The idea of a true name gives us power. This power is also seen in German fairytales, such as Rumpelstiltskin. Use their names while you are talking and while addressing them. Also, don’t overuse it, as it might sound odd. Don’t ever mispronounce it, as it leads to something other than what we think.
4) Secret strategy
I feel afraid to reveal this secret strategy. But for my readers, let it be. It’s the secret itself. In the book called The Psychology of Persuasion, Robert Ciadini talks about the scarcity principle. It says that if something is scarily young, people find it attractive. Actually, if you tell a secret to them, they think that you trust them. So that they will trust it again. So if you are developing a close circle, tell them some secrets so that they might trust you and get close to you. But also make sure that you don’t tell others' secrets.
5) Road of interest
Have you met a person who will bore you to death? They will repeat the same topic again and again. But "a charismatic person can speak fluently on a wide range of topics." Develop passion and interest in many things and topics. Be sensitive to others and respect their thoughts and opinions. If you have the same passion as others, they’ll be attracted to you.
6) Magnet of Friends
If you have a home full of friends and have built a great relationship with people by socialising with them often, it gives you confidence. It is important to be a kind, caring, helpful, and appreciative person. People like you not only for who you are but also for how you make them feel. If you make them feel good, you are a perfect magnet for friends.
Finally
7) The art of saying no
"A confident person can say no politely but firmly". You can try saying
Don’t forget to say it in a polite manner. A smile will make it better, though.
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