We encounter a lot of people in our daily lives. We classify most of the strangers into two categories i.e. friends and foes. It may sound weird but my list of friends is negligible as compared to list of foes. Majority of us usually fail to put a person into right list . I ,myself used to put majority of people into friends.
But after encountering many betrayals I understood my lesson.
I will try to share stories of where my friends betrayed me , put my view on what a friend really means to me and how we can distinguish between friends and foes.
Definition of Friend?
lets search what according to google is a friend
A person with whom one can share bond of mutual affection , can share family relations.
Is this definition really true?
According to me this definition is far from truth ..
Is this not possible that the person you feel you share a mutual bond is actually just pretending to share ?
Is it not possible that he just keep on taking and not giving you anything ?
Is the person you feel comfortable to share your family relations shares his/her family relations with you ?
Let me tell you what according to me is the definition of REAL Friend :-
He will not let you do whatever you want :- Most of the people feel those who are jealous of you will discourage you to think you are thinking right. And we put those people in list of foes. But according to me they deserve a spot in list of friends .I never used to drink alcohol until I asked my friend whether it is good decision to drink or not . Just as I asked this question he convinced me that all billionaire drinks, all successful people became successful not because they used to work while others sleep but because they used to drink when others work for them . Result I started drinking ,got addicted to it , wasted ton of money .
He will save you , not the money :- Just ask this question .. If I offer your friend 15 cr to kill you will he take it or not .. most you will be like ,"ooohh that friend of mine will definitely save me." Believe me he will not. That's the only reason why most people fail to distinguish between friend and a foe . They think their so called friend will extend his limits for them while reality is always the opposite.
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