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Today's topic is a bit different. We will be talking about the affection and love of a partner and is it really true or is he/she has a different face that they are not showing you which they should. When you are in a relationship, you ought to be honest and clear about your thoughts which will allow you and your partner to gain trust and love each other. At least you should be clear on your thoughts, in that way you are not fooling someone.

Lust may lead to love, but these two aren't the same. Lust is based entirely on physical attraction and fantasy, whereas love is about the real person

I feel there is no harm in being sexually attracted to a person but to disguise that feeling and act as that is love is just creul towards your partner. So u might ask, if there is any way to check if it is really love or just lust? Well, it doesnt really work like that on everyone, but here i have some ways to confirm if you have a doubt on that…

Listening to one's gut early in your relationship, can reveal some signs of trouble.

• Never neglect you gut voice that says “danger”.
• When you have a sense of discomfort or you are feeling drained emotionally after you are together
• Your attraction seems destructive.
• You are uncomfortable by the way you are being treated.

Now these were just signs to look out for in your partner. But what about your thoughts? Below are the signs for your thoughts.

Signs of lust..

• You may experience intense desire, enthusiasm or unbridled sexual longing.
• You are totally focused on a persons looks and body.
• You are interested in just having sex
• You want to keep the relationship on a fantasy level.

Signs of love.

• You feel charged and energetic around them.
• You cant wait to see them, even when they've just left.
• You always make time for them.
• You idealize them.
• You go out of your way to see or talk to them.

At the end, i want to add that its ok to be attracted to someone and not be in love with them, u just have to keep it real. 

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