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Parenting - Blissful Phase Of Life

Published May 3, 2022
2 mins read
469 words

Hearty welcome to all the curious readers to my blog. I am really overwhelmed with your consistent support and comments which enables me to extend my boundaries in writing.

Today's blog ,I am going to divulge about one of the most thrilling and exciting phase of life.  Its about parenting. This blog is an outlet of many good takeaways which I imbibed from my parents and many elders.

  Parenting is the most blessed stage of life. Believe it or not, when a child is born ,the parents are also reborn to acquiesce the new facet of life. The entry of a baby into a house transforms his/her parents completely into mature, responsible, caring and loving human beings no matter how careless or nonchalanting they were before entering into this blissful stage..

But are all parents really enjoying this blessing ? Its indeed a million dollar question in the current scenario. Many people opine that handling 2k kids is indeed a herculean  or mammoth task. I personally feel whether its 2k kids or 3k kids, parents are the first mentors of their child. This is because

“Children follow our example rather than our advice”

Its a universally accepted truth that parents are a perfect paragon or  role model to their kids. So no matter the distractions or barriers children face in their life, they are sure to taste the fruit of success if they are moulded , mentored and shaped perfectly by their parents.

Requisites of good parenting :

  • Love the child unconditionally and accept the child as they are, including their abilities and setbacks.
  • Do not compare the child with others. I feel comparing and degrading the child is also child abuse.
  • Do not argue or use abusive words in front of the child .This is because as I have already mentioned children tend to follow our actions more than what we advice or philosophize.
  • Narrate good fables or moral stories for bedtime stories so that good ideals are inculcated in their subconscious mind.
  • Incase your child has committed any grave mistake ,do not shout or  punish them severely. Make them understand the consquences of such behaviour.
  • If they continue to do, observe silence. This is the best away of expressing your anger rather than shouting or beating the child. I can assure you this will bring a drastic change and they will never repeat the mistake again
  • Appreciate them for small good deeds they do. This can even be a small star in their hands but it can motivate them to achieve greatly.
  • Last but not least, do not try to force them to fulfill your dreams. If you need a smart child, you ought to be a smart parent by identifying their passion and guiding them to achieve their goals

Hope this was useful for you..

HAPPY PARENTING !!!

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lokeshbhandari821 5/3/22, 8:27 AM
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Nice Blog Pls read mine too
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ambili.jinesh 5/3/22, 8:39 AM
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Children are the flowers and Good Parenting is a good Art.
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parvathy.p.s.p.s 5/4/22, 7:49 AM
Parenting styles refer to how we control and support our children and also the behavioral and performance standards we expect from them. Here are details that will help you make an informed choice Parenthood is a status that is anticipated with much excitement and trepidation. When it happens, a mix of instincts, childhood experiences, and ideas acquired from fellow parents, friends, and other sources meld to form a distinctive style of parenting, unique to each parent and family. As parents, we may respond to the actions of our children with affection and encouragement and offer sensitive guidance. Alternatively, we may use commands, negative comments, and threats to ensure that our children meet our expectations. Important influences on expectations include culture, values, roles, and practices specific to individual family units. Parenting through cultures and ages All societies and cultures expect parents to nurture and protect their children. They prescribe parenting practices appropriate to their contexts. In India, our scriptures and ancient thought leaders set forth parenting precepts and ways of inculcating codes of beliefs and conduct in children. The nature of the family unit - the joint family or the more recent nuclear family - plays an important role in determining how parenting occurs. Although both types have similar parenting goals, the joint or extended family leans more towards cooperative relationships, as members depend a great deal on each other. The nuclear family favors a child-centered style with an emphasis on individuality, character, and uniqueness. Importantly, the way we raise children changes and evolves over time and as they grow older. Extensive research indicates that parenting styles across cultural contexts fall into four main categories - Authoritarian, Permissive, Neglectful, and Authoritative. Authoritarian Parenting - Controlled child The authoritarian or 'do as I say' parent takes complete responsibility for the child, makes all the decisions, and expects the child to be unquestioningly obedient. There is order without freedom. With no scope for reasoning, discussion, or negotiation, rules are made and enforced entirely by the parent. Probable outcomes The child learns to lie to conceal mistakes and avoid punishment. Lack of training in making decisions leaves him helpless and vulnerable to peer pressure. The ability to appreciate different points of view is compromised. Consequently, the child becomes judgemental, leading to rejection by peers. He finds it hard to trust his own abilities, as harsh parental criticism lowers self-esteem. The frustrations resulting from all this are suppressed and he exhibits passive behavior; alternatively, they are released through anger outbursts. He becomes excessively defiant of authority as a teenager. The development of critical thinking skills is impaired. Other likely fallouts: Lowered academic performance, poor handling of relationships, and long-term personality problems. Permissive parenting - Indulged child The permissive parent is over-indulgent, gives in to the child's demands, and protects her from disappointments. She is allowed to bend or break rules without having to face consequences. Probable outcomes Getting her own way all the time leads the child to expect the same treatment from peers, making her unpopular. She learns to disrespect and defy rules, and has difficulty in understanding the seriousness of such offenses. Showered with indiscriminate praise, she develops an inflated sense of self. Since she is not expected to be responsible for herself, she learns to blame her parents and others for her lapses. She becomes powerful in manipulating her submissive parents, feels entitled to be waited on, and excused for shortcomings. Deep down she feels fearful. Neglectful Parenting - Abandoned child The neglectful parent ignores responsibility, allowing the child to grow without guidance or care. No rules are established and no meaningful parent-child relationship exists. The members of the family lead disconnected lives. Probable outcomes The child struggles to survive. He becomes dependent on anyone who shows him some care. He becomes vulnerable to anti-social influences or depression. He feels lost and uncared for, leading to feelings of sadness and despair. His weakened emotional health affects his concentration and attentiveness to academics. Authoritative Parenting - Child-centred approach The Authoritative Parent appreciates equality rather than hierarchy and promotes mutual respect between parent and child. Rules are explained and opinions and agreement are obtained through discussion, while the parent retains ultimate authority. There is freedom within limits. The parent uses everyday events as opportunities to teach the child to distinguish between good and bad choices. She is encouraged to become resilient by reflecting upon and learning from mistakes and to keep trying. The authoritative parent guides and teaches children to survive in the world. Probable outcomes The child learns to be courageous about handling what comes her way. She becomes self-motivated and strives to achieve through interest and effort. Her emotional stability is enhanced, enabling better focus on academics and achievement. She learns to be assertive, values friendships, and is cooperative, responsible, and caring. There are several sub-categories of parenting styles. Here's a bird's-eye view of a few:

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