YOU WILL BE FINE!!!!
So much is happening in your life, all at once. Your college is over, or about to get over. You either hate your job or you want a job. You want to move out, and have a place of your own. A small one, but your own place.
You're in your twenties, but you still act like a child. DON'T LOSE THAT CHILD, AS YOU GROW UP!!ππ
WELL, it all feels so confusing! Especially when every one of your friends is in an entirely different phase of their lives. Some of them are still figuring it out, like you. Some of them have all planned out what it is they want from life and have already acquired half of it. Some of them have everything they ever wanted, a good job, a happy married life with a guy of their dreams, and now having a baby too. And sometimes you start growing apart from some friends. You're not young anymore, but you're still not totally old(Yes, a girl in her 20's, is not quite a grown-up yet). So, you end up not having the luxury to mess up because you're an adult, but at the same time, you are free to do whatever it is you wanna do.βπ
The man of your dreams is now changed. Why is it that every guy you like is either already dating someone, or is not looking for anything serious? β¨ At this point in your life, you keep telling your friends how you've given up on romance and relationships, what you don't tell your friends is you are still a hopeless romantic.πππ
You want to do your masters, you want to find someone special, and you want to sleepπ on the weekends too. Somehow, you aren't able to do all of this at once. You start appreciating staying at home rather than partying/going out. β¨ You wait for the weekends so you can do important things that you have been postponing. But when the weekend finally comes, you end up sleeping through it.π΄π΄
LITERALLY, everything about your life is confusing right now. You are under peer and family pressure. Aunties have started giving you the βyou-will-get-married-soonβ looks. You haven't even done half of the things you wanted to do in your twenties. β¨Some days are more difficult than the others, then some days are better. You have so much left to do. You have a world filled with life waiting to happen. You have books to read. Steps to be taken. Places to see.People to meet. And in ten years, when you look back, you'll wish you were here again.
A few good things are happening to you as well. You have accepted your body, and you love it. You don't hate yourself anymore for not having a model's body or perfect skin. β¨You have learned to love yourself for what you are, and it's beautiful.π§‘πππππ
TO THE GIRL IN HER 20'S, it's okay to not have your dream job at 22. It's alright if you don't want to get an MBA. It's fine if you are single. It's okay if you still make mistakes, everyone does, it's a lifecycle, but remember to learn from your mistakes and try not to repeat them. Your heart will heal. But today will never be back again. Don't live with βCould-have-been'sβ. Take chances. Face your fears. Do the simple things. Don't lose yourself in meaningless relationships, because ALWAYS REMEMBER-- It's okay to be alone.
BREATHE, YOU ARE ONLY IN YOUR 20'S. YOU ARE GOING TO BE ALRIGHTβ¦ Enjoy your 20's while it lasts because every stage has its own beauty. enjoy every phase of being in the 20's, every aspect of it. Whatever life puts in your way, and learn to handle every situation beautifully. AND MOST IMPORTANTLY, DO NOT FORGET TO LIVE. π
LOVE,π β£ SOMEONE WHO IS STILL FIGURING OUT !!!!! π ππ