Before loving others, we gotta love ourselves.

Before accepting others, we gotta accept ourselves.

If you can figure out a way to love yourself (which you can surely do!), you can definitely spread that love to others. 

On the other hand, if you don't feel loved from within, you lower your feeling state.

Sometimes we start feeling good while meeting someone who somehow makes us feel good.

That's all great! 

But we must also understand that there will be moments when I will be my own company.. 

When nobody else will be there to quench the thirst of my happiness. 

Hence if we can allow ourselves to feel good and love ourselves the way we are, we can surely enjoy our own company in our lonely days.

And believe me, this self care is not at all selfish. 

It is self rewarding and soul soothing. 

Moreover, the more we feel good about ourselves, the more we will feel the need to love others and make others feel good too.

And if you pay a little attention, you will realise 

That this self love that we feel for ourselves can't be suppressed. 

It wants to be expressed to touch many other lives.

It knows no limitations.

Only expansion and compassion is it's duty.

And we are full of it when we allow ourselves to feel good and express happiness to others. 

Of course there are moments when we feel lost.

When we wish for support. 

That's ok. We can surely have that into consideration. 

But there is always a choice to feel good once again.

And it all starts with your thoughts. 

If thoughts can change, so can the feelings. 

If feelings can change, so can life.♥️

When we prioritize giving (whatever we can, even some love through our words), we feel at ease.

This giving has a power.

The more we give, the more powerful and loved we feel, both from outside and from inside.

But when we start focusing only on receiving, we tend to forget about our power.

That's why we feel desperate. 

Because we were focusing only on receiving. 

This is a very fundamental understanding that can massively change your life, if understood.

Another important thing that can increase our self love is appreciation. 

Appreciation for who we are and what we have.

If we can be thankful for all the things, however little they may seem, in our lives, we can tap into a reservoir of peaceful energy.