How To Disagree Without Conflict?
It's absolutely fundamental to say that different people have different viewpoints in life.
One cannot force someone to believe what one believes.
Everyone is free to choose, express and believe in his own opinions.
And that's uniquely beautiful.
But the trouble arises when fight for me vs you begins.
We often stretch the justification of our individual points so far that we disturb the peace of mind.
This compelled me to make a blog on this topic.
Because it's time to spread love not criticism.
Let me get straight to the point.
Whenever you hear somebody saying something that you can't agree with, not even a little bit, you react aggressively.
Maybe not to that person, but in your own mind.
Like : How can he say such a thing? How dare he? Is he mad? And so on.
In fact, many a times the aggression becomes abusive in nature.
The problem here is : When we react in such a manner, we disturb the balance of our energy and imbalance mental peace.
But wait! Not just that my dear!
The real problem lies untouched.
Which is : We create boundaries and forget the oneness.
Again, I am not saying that one shouldn't diagree or express his views against something one doesn't like.
But one should not hold that feeling of resentment in his mind for too long.
This is how unity contracts and division expands.
Instead we can let go of that person's opinions without involving too much with it and focus on things that matter to him the most.
I'm sure we can do this. For the sake of love.
For the sake of happiness.
We don't have to agree but we don't have to fight either.
This was so subtle but so important to talk about.
One should always remember that beyond the surface of thoughts and opinions, we are loving beings and god's creativity.
Fighting each other would never end the conflict. It expands the conflict.
As our understanding deepens, which is why I wrote this post, we avoid arguments and attend settlements.
We choose joy and love over comparison and criticism.
Not only for other's well being. But for our own well being.
Because whatever we do to others will come back to us.
Whatever we sow we reap.
Because we are one being beyond body and mind.
It is crucial to give more care to your inner atmosphere than worrying about the outer surroundings.
As we begin to increase the levels of our love within, we feel the inspiration to share this to as many beings as possible.
We can heal with love. We can hurt with ignorance.
We can transform with understanding.
I'm sure this world will heal and rise like never before.
I see a better future through the eyes of my imagination.
I feel inspired to spread and share my message of love to all beings.
And I'm sure that happiness will settle in our hearts for good.
Thank you so much for your time on this blog.
I love you and pray for your success in life. π