Er At some point in your life you reach a stage wherein you always tend to find imperfections in your own self. These imperfections according to you can be your appearance, physicality, voice or any of personality trait. But the question is why do we tend to feel bad about ourselves? Why are we living in so much insecurities? Why are we affected by those comments and judgements? 

Afterall, we all are the creation of God then why do we differentiate or compare with others?

Nobody on the planet earth is perfect. No matter how you look, there is uniqueness, which makes who you are. 

After surfing hours on internet there is always a sense of insecurity among people . People tend to doubt the way their body looks and judge themselves after looking into virtual world. But still the question remains same. Why do we tend to feel bad about our own self?

I feel there is always a lack of acceptance in our society. We just want to change the other person according to our own perception and opinions. Society keeps on judging and mocking which thereby leads to doubt and low self esteem issues.And these issues wherein one question himself / herself everyday on every step of life, then this situation becomes miserable. 

Standard set on social media are overrated and unreal. We need to stop judging ourselves and accept the way we are. We all are beautiful and unique in our own way irrespective of your complexity, size or appearance.

These overthinking and anxiety leads to depression and low self . These insecurity and constant mocking has led to various health issues. Our soul and mind are so much occupied with this obsession of getting appreciation and recognition from others that we forget to love our own self. We must appreciate our bodies and accept them as they are and live our life to fullest. Life is short and unpredictable, so it's better if we live here according to our wish and stand for our own self. 

At the end, the journey will always be yours. There will be numerous distractions, judgements and insecurities but in the end you need to make it till the end with your self confidence and optimistic attitude towards life. 

Let's not seek validation from the society and accept ourselves with all our uniqueness.

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