Don't get dragged away by the title, my idea is not tough though!
The word "hunt" is crucial as our first thought will be of a lion hunting its prey ,a poor deer. But think twice ,its survival.
So i say, hunt for your soul mate rather than fall for the wrong one. People around you would mislead your thoughts saying this is a misconception and I am a person strongly against the following statement,
"Arranged marriages are precious , they make the family proud in all ways. They turn marriages auspicious and bring respect to the caste in which Bride and groom belongs to.
Varying ideas and thoughts do exist and I listen to them too. But still my say on this would remain to find [hunt] for the half part of your soul and body with whom you can connect at least with a string wire of common views, ultimately a person whom you can relate, relate with no one but to your likes and dislikes.
This can be portrayed as a large bin in a textile shop where two extraordinary people select their clothes from the lot where you fetched the printed pajamas ,then the other should at least pick a hand kerchief with similar print or even a relatable color cloth.
Its better to find sometime rather than to get buried in memories later. Being consistent in proving your right paths is difficult ,the only way to conceal them is to live with the wound and its life only when you have mixed emotions, failure and see the yellow ray of hope around sun which make you realize success is not far away.
The fantasy life and tag lines about married couples such as “bread and butter ”,"book and pen", "white chalk and black board would be of no use and will remain like mermaid with fish tail in the children story books whom no one has ever witnessed. However, they can never find space in any ones life hopefully.
Paying close attention to the quote “marriage is made in heaven” still holds its value and gives such a mesmerizing feel. Indeed its a beautiful phase of our life wherein we will start enjoying little things together in mad ways.
That's how i feel when east & west meet ,it's tough to be the best always !