Hello everyone!
Hope you all are safe and doing fine.
Today again I was puzzled as to which topic I should discuss with you all now. The topics I have discussed in the last few blogs are somewhat related to my personal life or what I have experienced in my life. I like to share this with you all because I believe that if I have committed some mistakes, others should be aware of it, so that they don't go through that in future. I firmly believe that as much we learn from our mistakes, we learn from the mistakes of others too. So, today's topic would be one of the things I have learnt in my life. Let's start.
First of all, I want to ask you all two questions.
How many of you feel lonely at times?
Now tell me, do you guys know the difference between being alone or lonely? If not, then alone is when you can be alone but happy, whereas loneliness is a kind of emotion that means you feel lonely when you are abandoned or left betrayed by someone. I hope you all would have understood by now.
You can be alone by your choice, but feeling lonely is different. When you feel lonely, it makes you gloomy or you might feel like you should also have someone to spend time with, to share your worries or happiness with. But there are two things you should be well-aware of in these circumstances, that is when you feel lonely.
First thing is that for your whole life, you must remember that you are enough for yourself. And second is you should never stop loving yourself, even when you have someone in your life. You might need someone at times and that's fine because we all need someone to share our feelings with, but that relationship you make with someone should not be out of loneliness. If you are feeling lonely, talk to your parents, or even better try to know yourself. Then, when you are calm and composed, think of relationships you have or you might have, and even after you start a relationship or friendship, always know your worth, and never stop loving yourself because when no one was with you, you were there for yourself, you handled yourself. If you take care of these two things, i.e. loving yourself and knowing your worth, you are absolutely good to go for a better and mature life.
Thank you.