Self-love? Is it really important for living a happy and contented life? Well, the answer to this question is surely a big YES!
It's a known fact that life does not come up with rainbows and butterflies all the while. But, how we deal with the hard times is all that matters. There are days when we end up self-doubting ourselves, maybe because of our job, a guy, a friend, or any individual in our life. Sometimes, we need to understand that we must stop chasing the wrong things in our life which we are inclined to do most of the time. Just because the opposite person makes you feel unwanted or undeserving doesn't mean you should disbelieve in yourself. We always keep on considering what other people say about us. We keep on overthinking and end up doubting our inner selves. But believe me, you are stronger than you think.
People are not going to stop judging you. So, why do you always have to think about what others will say or think about you? I strongly conceive that everything or every person we meet in our life is for a reason. Be it for a good memory or a good lesson. We get attached to things and people usually. However, we need to learn that nobody/nothing is going to stay with us forever. Considering the unnecessary things and thinking over and over is not good for your mental health. Then, why keep on hurting yourself by people that cause you pain.
To let the good things happen, you must learn to love yourself first and let go of the things. No, it's not selfish to love yourself! Be your own reason to smile. No one should have the potency to make you feel mediocre. It's YOU who is going to be throughout your lives and not any other person. Start believing in yourself, and miracles will set in motion. Apart from this, spend some time doing what you love, and not what people want you to do. Give yourself some time to heal. Boost up your self-confidence, consider what you like, care about yourself, and adore what you are becoming. Believe that you are important too in this beautiful world.
Start loving yourself! Start believing! Good things will always make their own way. So, love yourself a little more and cease running behind things that hinder your happiness.
Hope you are safe and having a great day!