Published May 8, 2021
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Yes!! I Am A Man

Published May 8, 2021
2 mins read
435 words

Boys don't cry. Why are you crying like a girl? He walks like girls, he talks like girls, and bla bla..  

Even we have decided colours too according to gender. What kind of color it is? Boys don't wear such colors.

If a girl wears men's Clothing we don't laugh. If she drives a car we praise her and many more instances are there where we don't judge any girl infact we praise her.

But we have seen so many people mock boys for their actions as if they are girls. But why? Are boys not human beings? Can't they have emotional side too? Who are we people to judge anybody? 


"Look at him she behaves like a girl."

"Behaves like a Girl" means we have categorised some actions or behaviour only meant for girls. On the other hand if any girl is doing something courageous, something big we always praise her like a boy. 

Why can't we praise boys as boys and girls as girls. We are the root problems of gender inequality. 

Due to this boys suppress their emotions and they never open up their heart. They fear to say something because they wonder people will judge them, will give them a tag of girls.

And there are various laws to punish a boy but what if a boy gets raped? What if a boy gets harassed? Any such law is there to protect them? And if exists, how many of us know about that and fight for them? 

Boys do have emotions, they just suppress them.

Boys do want to cry if they get hurt but we have curbed that since their childhood.

Boys are not always guilty of rape, atrocities on girls. In one way or the other girls too are responsible. 

As a Son, father and husband a man has lots of responsibilities. They don't utter a single word while taking all the burdens on their shoulders. We should also praise them for their good works like we do for others.

Some boys do such heinous activities, they should not be considered as humans. We have seen so many crimes where boys have  crossed all the limits of brutality. Because of them the whole community gets trolled for anything they do. 

Boys or girls both should be treated equally not only in books but in real. No one is superior to other. To live in this world or to continue this human race we need both of them. 

And Yes! I am a Man, I do feel pain,&  I have emotions too.

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piyush.kumar.day 5/8/21, 11:08 AM
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webthi 5/8/21, 11:18 AM
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great post!
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mridul.chakraborty 5/8/21, 11:51 AM
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devil.x.gamerz 5/8/21, 1:18 PM
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devil.x.gamerz 5/8/21, 1:18 PM
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manisha_rajbhar 5/8/21, 1:35 PM
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And Yes! I am a Man, I do feel pain,& I have emotions too. appreciate great post
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tkratika 5/8/21, 6:09 PM
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So right! "Why can't we praise boys as boys and girls as girls. We are the root problems of gender inequality." πŸ‘πŸ‘
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ankit.sharma08 5/9/21, 10:46 AM
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Sooo true...Every individuals go through pain but why boys are restricted to show them.GREAT WORK AND GOOD PIECE OF WRITING. Kindly follow me as well
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poornima 5/10/21, 1:08 AM
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Right..... Without judging man or woman..... Firth thing should come in our mind that we are human beings....we need love , care......and we have emotions as well.....πŸ’—πŸ€ŽπŸ’œπŸ’™πŸ’šπŸ’›πŸ§‘β€οΈπŸ€
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meenakshi.sutar 5/10/21, 10:44 AM
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Nice one! Our society is gender-biased.
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sandhusaab 5/10/21, 11:43 PM
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Nice
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m.paul 5/15/21, 6:21 AM
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Yes,true
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blogsbykanu 5/19/21, 12:54 PM
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very well written. We are the basis of gender inequality. We are filled with wrong expectations and notions in our childhood itself like men don't cry and women don't speak and all this made us less of a human. The tagging of emotions according to the gender is really bad and disheartening.
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lekha.mohan 7/13/21, 9:55 AM
Well written, concept is really good

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