Hmmmmm..  very sensitive topic it is. But do we bother of it anymore? Especially husbands should stand up for their wives ,do they? Do they have that courage ? Do they interrupt their parents while they talk something inappropriate?

 Obviously we can expect something in return from our loved ones. Expectation of getting love in return, getting respect, getting care. 

But what if this expectation get mixed with some sort of financial gain? 

List and priorities have changed over the period or we can say as world is changing so are our in-laws. 

Now-a-days they expect a working daughter-in-law. Not because it makes her busy, just because it will fetch some money to run the household. Because to make herself busy she can pursue her hobby, or she can learn different things but that isn't fruitful until she earns money.

Firstly they search a suitable bride for their sons who can earn for herself or can help at home too. Then they persist or remind her of her responsibility again and again.

If their sons are not capable enough, do they remind them of their responsibilities again and again? Do they judge them in monetary terms? 

But on the other side they want a multi tasking daughter in law always, who can easily manage household chores, working life, and also can take care of their son.

If they hide their son's disabilities then why do they force their daughters in law to hide that disability and to earn themselves.

They observe each and every activities of daughters in law as if they are their judges and daughters in law are culprits only.

They merge everything with money itself, what does she eat, how does she take care of herself, how does she look, means each and every dimensions get checked by them on daily basis.

Who don't want to earn money? Each and every girl knows and wants too establish her career as soon as possible.

But Girls there, to marry someone you need 

• A fixed career or any route of earning money
• And secondly, you have to forget that you exist in your form. You have to bring in patience to listen negative talks also.

Husbands have crucial role here. But actually they come in dilemma here. To them, their parents are their everything and the girl they bring in their homes as wives are becoming their everything. To tackle both of them what should they do? 

They should stand for what is right, Whether it's their wife or parents. Parents will be knowing that their son will interrupt them or wife will also know that my husband is not going to support my mistakes.

Many of you here are not married but you know the situation more or less. What are your views, do tell me?