HI THERE, I HOPE ALL OF YOU ARE FEELING GOOD AND HAPPY!! 

This is my fourth blog in candle monk. This time my topic is about SELF RESPECT AND SELF LOVE. 

So what is self respect ? In my view self respect is the respect we give to ourselves for our own happiness and peace. There after we will get what we are giving. So now what is self love? There is a famous saying that      “ love yourself” this statement makes sense. Before loving someone else start loving yourself and self love change the whole outlook of yourself. 

I know a few stories that a girl/boy loves their partner more than anything else in this world and further ruins their own life. Without self love and self respect you cannot achieve anything in this world. Work hard and prove that there is no one in this world like you. You are unique. 

If you are a person feeling that you are useless be in mind that it is a great NO. If you ones start believing in yourself no one or no materialistic thing can stop you from being a successful person. You know what, most of the successful person in this whole world have developed from a great zero like a phoenix bird. 

To the people who believe they are outcast, just be yourself and prove yourself that you are outcast because you are successful not because you are failure. No man can compare to you. People must not desire to be perfect and it should not be considered as the greatest achievement. Being perfect is a myth.

Self love is not selfish, it is prioritizing yourselves and not being too MUCH tough on yourself. FOR EXAMPLE: when our loved ones makes a mistake we often forgive them SUDDEN but if we makes a mistake it will stuck in our mind and start cursing ourselves. This is because of lack of self love and self respect. 

Be positive. all we need to do is love yourself and respect yourself which in turn fade all the negativity. It also helps you to achieve great satisfaction in the life. We also change our perspective of the world instantly and will become positively motivated which will results in a greater mental health. People who respect and love themselves are less likely to suffer depression.

YOU SHOULD PUT YOURSELF IN A HIGHER PRIORITY. We should think highly on OURSELVES as we wish how the world should estimate us. 

THANK YOU FOR YOU VALUABLE TIME!!!