Motherhood is a blessing but it comes with its own share of problems. Every new mom has certain expectations from her new life but it's hard with the reality soon after. No matter how prepared you are, this little human being is going to surprise you with his/her tricks.
1.. Physical change of Mom😅😤
Expectation - As soon as I give birth to my baby, my belly will go down, and my body will look and feel more like myself again.
Reality - To my surprise, I looked 4 to 5 months pregnant after delivery. 😮💨 It will take atleast a year to recover my body.
2.. Day time🌞👹
Expectation - I will be super organized and we will still be able to do all the things we have done before.
Reality - Your brain need a while to think and execute any kind of work that you are an expert before. It will take a very different form for a while and mostly involve stuff for the kid, leaving you water-less and exposed to the elements 🫠 while little one has 5 changes of clothes for all day routine.
3.. Night🌜😈
Expectation - I will have an instant bond with my baby and a rush of love that will power me through the sleepless nights.
Reality - The bond might take a while and you feel stressed for first few months.
4.. Helpful Husband👫🏻🙆🏻♀️
Expectation - My partner and I can handle everything. We are capable and responsible adults. We don't need any extra hand.
Reality - Partner can't be available 24/7. We should take elders help.
5.. Breastfeeding 🤱🏻🤦🏻♀️
Expectation - I told myself breastfeeding will be easy enough. After all, women have been feeding their babies since the beginning of time. It should be easy and natural as our bodies are designed for breastfeeding, right?
Reality - Breastfeeding turned out to be a battle - myself against my body. I had to power through because it took a long time to get the hang of it. There are right and wrong ways to latch a hungry baby. Continue a bad latch and you end up with miserable mommy and baby.
😂😂I should stop my complaints here or I am going to scare many new mom to be soon😉
There are so many lovable secret expectations and reality like Diaper change, Bathing, Feeding your toddler, Work from home, etc..,
💞Babies are bundles of joy that bring laughter and mischief into our lives. Their innocent antics and mischievous nature can put a smile on our faces.
😵💫Changing diapers can turn into a wrestling match when your little one decides to roll, crawl, or giggle uncontrollably during the process. It's a challenge, but it's also a wonderful memory that we carry throughout our life.
♥️Babies bring immense joy and laughter into our lives with their naughty and funny antics👶🏻
New mom, it's your time to transform yourself into a Super Mom.💙
Happy Motherhood..🥳