DOES QUESTIONING SAY ANYTHING ABOUT YOU?  Yes it does, it says that you get excited to learn about every small detail 

Does it go same when you ask questions about what society tells you to do?

Yes it does, you don’t have to follow anything without knowing why do you have to follow it and remember “we are elder” is not a reason. Judgements passed by the society help you with nothing but questioning your worth. And everybody knows no one likes to question their worth for those people who actually don’t understand how worthy and fruitful could it be to have someone like you around in their atmosphere. Judging a guy over cooking, a girl over fighting, a child over knowing about his passion, and an adult over partying is basically the only job those for people have and letting those people comment about your worth, complaining over it and you yourself noticing it and worrying about it just wasting your time and not  in a worthy way.   Everybody loves to comment over everything but no one wants to take it positively.  Positivity is another necessity now-a-days. Judgements are rude enough for a person to question their potential.

The way our generation is talking about how painful judgemental comments could be, the decrease in societal judgements isn’t reducing at all.

Judgement comments no doubt take a person’s will down but still it might give a little negative motivation to the person until it’s painful enough to hurt deep. 

“Judgements are a different thing we are just trolling, it’s just for fun” MOST BASIC COMMENT BY OUR GENERATION. Trolling and keeping your opinion are totally separate things neither judgements are opinions nor trolls. Every person with different potentials of taking comments and nobody handles everything the same way. 

At last I would say be a human and let someone stand easily and don’t break them down. and if society calls me a criminal for asking for my rights then i am okay being one 

its just i am strong enough to stay and fight than rather sitting staying in and listening to the judgements which would make me cry over little things which are not rather important for me than other things going around but this may help me gain the potential to fight against the pain going inside me and rip off all the pain i have been through because of all the judgements 

a blog by CHHAVI DUA