Sometimes friendship really hurts, you loose your trust from peoples… Not friendship actually, I should call it as “Fake Friendship”. When those friends whom you trusted for years breaks your trust, you suddenly realize that you were having so many fake peoples whom you regarded as real friend. 

 Following 5 points will help you to understand if a person is your fake friend or true friend-:

1. Breaking of trust- Fake friends easily breaks your trust, in the starting you won’t understand their lies, because you always trusted them, so you couldn’t doubt your loving friends.
2. Jealousy- Fake friends will feel jealous of your success, they will taunt….but real friends will appreciate, they feel happy for you.
3. Selfishness- You can notice that some of your friends are acting really selfish, they won’t help you even if they can. They fear, if you go ahead of them. They try to make you down. They are there with you because of their own selfish intents.
4. Cheating- False friends cheat. They backstab, they can even talk bad about you in your absence. Where as a real friend will protest whenever he/she hears something wrong about you.
5. Care and Support- Fake friends will never care for your emotions, they won’t support when you need them, until and unless they have some work with you.

The first four points are the biggest evil in friendship, which hurts a lot when you get to know it…..we can understand whether a friend is really our true friend or not in a time of need, when you are facing any kind of problem. The fake ones will leave you instantly, but your real friends will be there for you. So, you need to be much careful while doing friendship and trusting people… I don't have many good friend (talking about friend of same age, school, etc. Otherwise there are amazing people who are like my friend, some are older than me, some younger…. Age doesn’t matter in friendship to be honest). If you don't have friends, it's okay, have hope that in future you are going to get true friends, and it's okay too if you don't find a real friend.. try to be enough for yourself… Many people will come and go, but remember you remain constant with yourself…. Be your bestest friend. 

Until I write again…

~Basundhara