Life revolves around three phases of time. Our  past, our  present and our future. Our past contains  our memories, our present is what we do now and our future is the result of our past and present. We learn from our memories, implement it  today and make plannings for our future.

Our past contains good as well as bad memories. Our good memories helps us recall the time that we enjoyed  and keeps motivating us for our future. Whereas the bad memories are those which we don't want to experience again. These bad memories always keeps us  demotivating and act as a hurdle in making future plannings. They always keep a doubt in our mind and we take ourselves back in the life that makes us feel sad and thus we spoil our present.

Often we want to forget our bad memories and make a fresh start. But the thing that I have experienced is we can't think of a better future until we don't forget our past.

We can't enjoy present until we don't refresh ourselves by erasing our bad memories. 

Is it really so tough to erase our memories that were our best memories once but we don't want now even to think of them?

Okay, I understand it's tough, but it must not be so tough that we ruin  our present and waste our time just recalling our past.

Friends please do not ruin your present thinking of your past. Erase all your past memories that you don't want to keep. Erase the photos, the conversations, the characters that you don't want to look back again. If you are seriously looking ahead for a better present and future then you will have to take harsh decisions, you will have to become tough. It's rightly said that “if you want to achieve something you will have to lose the other”. Make new friends, explore new places, and have a lot of fun

It is a special mention to my buddy that please do not ruin your present by recalling your past. Try to overcome your past memories and look ahead  for a better future full of enjoyment, full of adventure and full of happiness. You have got a very charming smile, do not spoil it by taking you in a world that you don't want to be in.