I have been thinking about this topic for quite a while. Today I got the chance to speak about it. I have been observing this throughout my childhood that the society was such that the mother is accused for everything bad associated  with the child. If there is something good about the child then the credit goes to the father. Now this exists even today.  

The mother is the first person to teach the child to speak, generally so..!! Then as the child grows older every little training is given tenderly by the mother. From toilet habits to reading and writing habits. Everything is taken care of by the mother, be it working mother or non-working mother. 

The fathers are meant to take care of the outside world . Today even if the mother has to work and look after the baby, the total responsibility of the household and the child comes indirectly on the mother. This has been taking place from time immemorial. So its nothing new. 

But this is sad that even after taking so much care of the child, the mother doesn't get any credit for training her child. Moreover she is blamed if the child goes somewhere wrong. 

But if the child does something good the credit is given instantly to the father. This is something very sad. 

Moreover many children are born paralyzed or with less intellect or some others are specially capable children. The sad part is many Men have divorced their wives for giving birth to such kind of children.

Now this is happening to a great extent nowadays,. The father cannot take the expense of a paralyzed child so the divorce their wives. When I read the first news in a a newspaper I have been moved to a great extent. Many questions arose in my mind from then. But I could get the answers. From then I have been thinking of writing about this issue.

Why should mothers be facing the difficulties of raising a child only?? The fathers should play an equal role. Just because they are male that does not give them the right to be so much coward….!!

Their are very few cases where a women is seen to leave the child for her own happiness. This is because its her motherly instinct which prevents her from doing such kind of cowardice act….!!!

We need to think about this issue and let all men become equally responsible for their child  and lets not put the blame on the mother if the child goes wrong somewhere…!!!