We all want a certain degree of space in our lives. Don't we??

When we are in a relationship or just living with our parents. The main thing is that we want a little bit of space for ourselves. We want to chat, spent time together, go to a part and be social. But we also want our own space.

And if somebody tries to take over that space from us, then the trouble or the issues are born.

Feeling neglected

When we don't let our partners to get into our free space, our partners feel neglected, avoided and left alone. This is the most common feeling. But when we take our own space, then we should also know to give some space to our partners.

Why space is required??

Sometimes a husband or a wife might face trouble in solving job issues, financial issues, family issues. So they might require some space to think about the solution. Sometimes people working in creative fields need to think of something innovative. So they might require space. There could be many similar reasons. So its the duty of their partners to give space to them. This space could mean actually ‘No harm’.

Should we give space to our partners?

We should absolutely give them that space or else their thinking will get no better. Suppose your relationship with your partner is suffering, then you should give a little space to each other, so that you can sit alone and think about where you are going wrong. Sometimes a very serious decision regarding job has to be taken, so a little space is required at those times.

Why do we feel uncomfortable when our partners enjoy the space?

Yes, this is very common in couples. When one of them enjoys the space the other partner can get jealous because he/ she is not taking part in that space. Actually when we become couples, we feel  that we have conquered somebody for all time. But that is not the actual scene. We might be committed in a relationship, but this should also mean giving space to our partners. We should not feel that if our partners are not with us, they might be enjoying with others. Let them enjoy their lives in their own terms. We should all enjoy and try celebrating our lives from different dimensions. This would only add colors to our lives. Now this should not make us feel so uncomfortable that we feel our partner is cheating on us. 

Is there any need to understand the ‘ space’ between the partners??

Yes, absolutely. This space in a relationship is the oxygen that can help the relationship to breathe. So this is an extremely important point to be remembered in a relationship.