There are certain things that one should never tell to their children because that can affect in negative psychology of a child.
I would like to explain those things by citing some examples .
Case 1
Rita is a mother of a 8 year old girl child. Rita finds her husband extremely boring and always busy with his office work. Rita misses the wonderful romantic chemistry with her husband after the child was born and she kept telling her husband for giving her that time.
But Rita found her husband not finding time for that space for Rita. Now Rita is so irritated about this thing about her husband not giving her time and attention that she always tells her daughter negative things about her husband. She always kept telling her daughter how bad her father is and how he mistreats her and all. The eight year old daughter is already a very intelligent and a growing child. She learns about this negative things about her father from her mother.
What do you think, should Rita do this thing?
Now Rita is right about her perspective and the husband also works hard to make the ends meet. So even if Rita has complaints against her husband she should avoid expressing negative things about her husband to her daughter. This is because the daughter gets to learn something negative about her father. But the daughter is intelligent herself, so when she will find that the father is sincere and works hard to earn for her school fees, food and all, the daughter will understand that her mother was actually not saying the right things about her father.
At last when the daughter grows up she will misunderstand her mother only.
Instead if Rita discusses it with her sisters or her friends and try to sort out her problems without telling negative things to her daughter about her husband . That could actually help the child to grow well with positivity.
There are certain things which parents should never tell their children. They should avoid telling negative things to their children. They should never create a certain unnecessary fear in their child, although certain fear should be made clear to them. Like if they do not cross the road with attention to the traffic rules, they can meet accidents. Next if they tease or hurt any animal unnecessarily, they can cause them harm. Many such things should be explained to the child on a good note so that the child grows with lots of positivity in their mind.