Let me go directly to the main part of the topic. By the topic itself you can actually understand what I would like to share through this blog.

The main problem of our country for this is the increasing population of our country. In our country their are thousands of nonearning men , so leave the question of nonearning housewives. 

As it is in our Indian system of family life everybody in the family has the right to speak up their minds and their wish before everyone except for the housewife. 

The housewife is the last person who is thought about in the family. These has been the situation  from time immemorial. 

Even today the earning husband of the house do not intend to give some allowances to their wives. They would readily tell their wives and that too very rudely to join some job or office  to earn some money. 

And that is the reason the housewives are no more valuing the children's growth, the family life anymore. They want to earn money . But this was not the case during our grand parents or parents time. My grannies both paternal and maternal were housewives and they only looked after their family, husband and children.  And even my mother is a housewife . They managed the children and family so well that today we can do all work by ourselves. 

The teachings of my mother and grannies were so rich that today I value my family life the most. And after doing all the household responsibilities I have built up my business, blogging, singing classes and few other sources from where I independently earn money. 

But I hard to attain these [present state of life. I am always working but i do not have to go out to earn the money. That's all that I wished for.

Today I am my own boss and I maintain my own discipline to earn money and maintain my family. 

But I don't thing every women gets that much scope and capacity to earn money being a housewife. So the earning husbands should understand especially in India where the earning opportunities are not evenly distributed . The husband should give a certain allowance to their wives because she is working all day to maintain the family. 

Had my Mother and grannies given me good teachings and education I could never have made some earning and maintained my family well.

Reference Case 

This is about a friend of mine. She has been often chatting with me about her husbands bad behavior. She told me each time she wants to buy something for herself her husband insists her to get a job for herself.  She often cries before me while chatting about this issue because she is not getting any job opportunities or any ways of earning as per her potential. I give her ideas to try many ways of earning bbut she has failed in most of them.

Then i told her about her potential. That she is a good wife, a good mother and good lady is a great thing to find these days. So she should value herself. 

But here I also ask the earning husbands to understand the potential of their wives. Not all wives have the talent to earn money but that should not be counted as their fault. if my mother or granny would go out to work, i am sure i would not grow up to be a wise and educated woman . 

So the husbands should support their wives with some money out of love for her. She is also a human being. Women should be valued for their contribution as a wife and a mother. If a wife can earn, its ok. But if the wife does not have the potential to earn, she should never be maltreated or disrespected. 

Above all your virtues count, money should be given as much importance as much is required ,not more than that. 

And every Indian housewives should be strong enough to prove their worth. If our mothers would not raise us with love we could have been spoilt by this time. So a wives role should be understood by herself the most and she should always know to respect herself whether she earns or not…….!!