Many of us comment about peoples look and they have many things to comment about others.
We often hear someone say, “ How dark that girl is , how will her parents get her married??”
or
“ You are too tall, you wont get a husband soon”
or
“ You are too short ”
There are many such discriminations always coming to our minds. Almost everyone of us comments on the looks and education and even orientation of others. We have too much problem in accepting the matter , how it is. We think that we are the perfect creation and all others are imperfect because they are different.
But there are many people who find beauty in everything and every person they see on earth. There lies the beauty of their vision. And that should be our vision too. We should know how to accept things as they are.
Case study
Suppose when the parents of a marriageable guy plans to get their son married to a girl of their choice, what do they generally do??
They set many criteria in choosing the perfect daughter-in-law of their choice. They generally want a girl who should be beautiful. That's the first criteria. She should be slim, fair and sharp featured and so on and so forth. Then there follows many other criteria. They set up so many criterias that sometimes they themselves get confused about what they actually want.
I have seen many cases where the guys parents went for 1000 visits to 1000 different girls house just to select that very perfect girl for their son.
Now this is also the case for a girls side also. I would be very wrong if I only put the blame on the boys family.
Today there are many girl's family who keeps on choosing the perfect groom for their daughter. Now don't think that girls are not choosy…!!
Today girls search for a handsome, well earned and perfect groom for themselves. In my neighborhood there is a family who went for 1500 visits and searches for getting that perfect guy for their daughter.
Now this case study is one of the ways of seeing the society. We actually do not know what is perfect but we continuously search for perfection. And this process we start discriminating people on their looks, choices, habits and sexual orientation also. We never try to observe the beauty in every thing we see.
But the strange part is that we don't do this with with a butterfly, a mountain, a river, a lion, a dog, a cat or any other natural elements. We are ready to accept them as they are but only in case of our own species, we follow such discriminations.
Isn't that strange?? Shouldn't we improve our vision and accept things as they are, and thereby find the beauty in them???
