I don't remember a day recently when I have seen my friends speak in an open hearted way….like how we used to chat our heart out in our school days and college days. I often thought about this issue and I tried to find out if this is the same observation for others also. Then I did a little research on my own .

This research was nothing but observing people and reading and making some deductions . 

Now there is a part of it which is to be worried but with advancement and changing times we also have to understand the actual reasons behind such a new norm. Lets try to find out why we are not interested to talk much. What could be the reasons which is stopping us from speaking more.

Technology

Today technology has taken a gigantic position in our lives. We do not want to do anything without technology. Its our way of thinking nowadays that we do not want to use our voice or our efforts too much. Even if we want to communicate with anybody else we take the help of chatting and we avoid verbal speech. Moreover we are busy with all sorts of technological things like online games and other online attractions. Our lives are too much bound by technology nowadays and we like to concentrate more on social media than talk with our friends and relatives. We simply are badly attracted to social media and different online sites etc. This is decreasing our urge to communicate and speak up our mind verbally as a human being,..

Apps

Nowadays we are very much dependent on apps which definitely makes our work easier. We are no more interested to convey our problems to anyone, we simply take the benefit of apps and that's how we solve majority of our problems. So we do not find the need of communicating with others.

Introvert nature

Some of us are really introvert in nature and we do not like to communicate to others. Even if we are asked to answer some questions we do not like answering anyone. That's becoming very common nowadays. Sometimes we don't want to disclose our job profile and our salary because that might make us look inferior. Sometimes we have some problem speaking nicely, or a problem of presentation . So we stop ourselves from exposing our weaknesses to others,. This leads to speaking less. 

Not wanting to share our thoughts

Sometimes people do not like to share their thoughts and thinking to others because they are in a constant fear of getting bullied or criticized in a negative way. Sometimes they keep all their thoughts and ideas all to themselves. But if these thoughts are expressed to others then there are greater chances of developing our social skills and also ideas. So there lies the problem.

Laziness

Sometimes we are just lazy and we do not want to talk to people because . This is really something very common in kids and young people .  This is also the case for old people. So many a times we see them wassuping to the family members who are in the other rooms… But they are so lazy that they cannot come up and communicate.😊

People are more comfortable in their own world

People are so much absorbed in their own world that they have little or no time to talk to others. This actually makes them lonely inside. Suppose a child going on playing  a video game, adult people getting addicted to the online platform. Even after the official work people do not talk much. They either look at their Facebook , twitter, Instagram, and other profiles  or they play online games or watch a  web series. So they decide their own world. As a result the communication system is getting a blow. People are getting habituated with speaking less. So if they go to a social function they become very comfortable in their own world. They don't like speaking to others.