We all think that if my life was easier then what it is today, we would feel very happy. Almost everyone of us think that our life is the most complicated and that is but , normal. So there is nothing to worry about that.
Today I would focus on something which we actually feel but we never express to anyone.
How many of you want to have a very steady and easy life?? I bet all of us would like to have a life of that sort. That's the ideal kind of life.
But if you ask your inner self you would get an answer that the hardest paths towards achieving something actually makes us feel happy. Isn't that so???
Case 1
Suppose if you are made to take part in a race where you only have to participate….and nobody else take part in this…Another way, if you are made to take part in a race where there are 20 other participants to compete with.
Considering both the cases, the harder case is the second one . But you would actually get more confidence and happiness if you defeat those 20 people and win the race… Isn't that so??
This simply tells us that we actually enjoy the hardest ways to success. If we are given an easy challenge then we might be successful easily, but we do not get that taste as in the hardest struggles.
That is the reason why in the second case , that I would cite, people find so much solace.
Case 2
Why do people go for mountaineering and trekking?? These are some life time experiences and people who have gone out for trekking knows the pain and gain of the experience. Leave about mountaineering….!! ITS A STEP HIGHER.
When Tenzing Norgay climbed the top of Mount Everest . Its a lifetime experience.. People forget the degree of pain after achieving the goal. And when the achieve goals like these they would actually tell you that they have had a brilliant experience , although it had been very tough..
There are many such beautiful things scattered around this world which are actually very hard to do, but once you have done them you feel the joy within. The feeling is not like the easy ways which you would have gone through. The easy things in life might give you instant pleasure but in the long run you would loose the charm of such things.
So even if are blessed with a cool and easy life, many people in this world try to explore the world and gain that ultimate happiness by setting a hard target….!!