Changing situations in life is in our hands so that's the topic that I am going to talk about now.
Each and every one of us fall in the trap of different types of situations each day. Some of us have the right idea and knowledge to control the situations and some of us badly fail in controlling the situations.
But if we understand every situation rightly and take actions in the right way then any and every situations can be controlled properly.
In most cases our situations become uncontrollable in life. We do not even understand how to control them but with maturity we get to understand the right way of controlling the situations.
So as we go through different experiences in life this tackling of situations go on improving and that's what is called maturity.
When we understand the vitality and the importance of a situation and treat that situation with practicality, that's when we actually tackle the situation well.
Most of us get into blasting fights and unsolvable situations each day , many couples and partners fight as if the only thing left in life is fighting . No ,we need to understand the importance of certain things. If we are in a relationship and constant fight is happening between the couple then we have to ask the question immediately to us. And that is “ Is the fight more important or the relation?”
Sometimes every couple need to discuss and have fights because they want to find the solution in themselves. They love each other badly but they also need a clean answer for themselves and their well being. But if both couples do not respect their relationships and go to heights of humiliations to each other for the sake of resolving their issues , then there are almost no chances of any resolution.
So is the case in every walk of life. Be it relationships, be it tackling a household, office, business, etc. Whichever situations come in our lives we have to have the trust within us that we can resolve the situation if its critical. No matter how hard the situation is, every situation has a resolution. Like how every birth has a death .
We need to have a problem solving mindset in our lives. No matter what kind of problems we are put into, we need to have a solution oriented mind set up. Like no matter what we want to solve the issue. And solving the issue doesn't mean getting out of the relationship or making it all over. We need to have patience and nice observation and understanding of the situation first. Then and only then then can we find a resolution of the problem in that situation.
No matter what friends, try to keep anger away from all problems solving. If anger becomes uncontrollable then no situation will ever get better in our lives.
The hardest situations requires the coolest and the most polite attitude to get resolved. So those two keywords are to be remembered everytime.
