Most of the homemakers in our country and also in many other countries seem to do certain things which is talked about by most working women. 

The working women says that the home maker wives only gossip with others and keep nagging their husbands and children and whosoever us present in the household. 

This is actually partially true to some extent for a country like us. Even after having lots of work in the house the homemakers find time to gossip and nag around. But the working ladies also gossip , that's common in all women. My point is that whether you gossip or not that doesn't matter, what matter is that everyone should understand their own value and should have confidence in themselves. 

You can be a non-earning homemaker of your family but you should not keep nagging behind the other members. You have to stop thinking minutely about everything in your household. Instead you need to strike a balance between homemaking and your likings. 

Every homemaker should value themselves whether they earn or not. They are not ‘bekar’s or ‘faltu’s of our society. They need to validate their life and nobody's view is required in this matter. 

There is a constant battle within a homemaker in order to get importance from the family. The husband or elders or children never give them importance. But should they leave their position and badly search for a job or commit suicide??

No..never..

You do not need to find any job for yourself or not even think of quitting life…You need to enjoy life and give answers to everyone who thinks you are useless. And that's the challenge you need to be comfortable with. Just getting frustrated because you do not have a high salaried job or position in the society does not solve the problem. 

If you are a mother and a wife and a daughter and many more relations to others…then enjoy the relationships and enjoy life on totality.

God is not going to award a great life to the earning women and give you a bad life just because you are not earning. If earning is what you want then go for it. Don't get pressurized by the society about what they want from you. 

The society will not come to lead your life but you will. 

Never think about what others will think about you unless you are wrong. Just enjoy your life making a home for you and for your family. You are doing a great job ….continue dong so….👍😊