This is the normal trend of every married couple to try for a baby soon after their marriage. This has been the trend for many generations and this generation also things are going the same. But with changing time, we need to understand and consider many things before bringing a baby in your life. 

A baby is a blessing undoubtedly but you need to give a thought about the future of the baby before bringing him in this world. People say ‘ once the baby comes everything will be alright and all will be good’. Now this is the most fake sentence . Nothing can bring happiness into your life if you are not happy inside. 

Many people thing that the bond between husband and wife strengthens after the birth of the baby. Then why do so many divorces happen after having 2 or 3 children??

So people need to think several times before planning for a baby. If a couple is not confident about their financial stability , and if you have not figured out a solution for your financial issues, better not bring a new life into this world. 

With changing times, the expenses of things have changed and for everything you need to plan your finances first. There is no certainty of any job nowadays. The expenditure from preschool to college has increased abnormally. So you need to give it a thought first. 

Again if you have loans like homeland and car loan going on and if the joint income of the family is not adequate, you need to think that first. 

You also need to keep a savings for your old age. Because now you are young , in your old days you wont be able to earn, so you need a good savings for medical, food, home and everything. 

Today you need a lot of things to consider before bringing a child into your life. 

Many couples suffer from infertility nowadays. So they spend lakhs of money to get those costly treatments of ivf and iui done. Some couples even take ransom loans to try for ivf. But you should think before taking such loans. You are spending such a lot of money even before the child is born, then think of the expenses you have to bear throughout the upbringing in this competitive world. If you have a solution for your finances then obviously you can try for a baby. 

But just because ‘ it is natural’, or ‘everybody needs a child’, ‘ a child brings stability in a marriage’, ‘a child will look after me in my old age’ …..all these are fake thoughts. 

There is no guarantee about anything in this world. So dont think how the society thinks, think about your capability and your potential to raise a child. If you have a solution go for the baby planning or else, just focus on work and other good things in life. Nobody is less fortunate. Even if you don't have a child , don't feel unsatisfied. Everything happens for a reason and trust on God ….always..!!