Life is a combination of happiness and sadness for each one of us. So its natural that we will have some level of miseries and unhappiness in life for sure.

Now the question is

Do we at all like the miseries and unhappiness in our lives? 

Like everyone would like to say, nobody likes or enjoys any negative emotions or negative feelings or sadness in life. This miseries and sadness give us all the sadness and none of us feel nice with sadness. And when we have more of it we feel, that we have the most unsuccessful life

And do we deserve them? 

Nobody thinks that we deserve miseries or unhappiness in life. But if you do not know how it feels then how will you understand happiness properly? Like how you do not know how light looks if you do not have the idea of darkness, likewise happiness needs an opponent to make itself recognized properly. So we all deserve miseries and unhappiness because we all have the right to understand happiness and get the true feelings of a beautiful and happy life.

What is the need of such miseries?

Whenever we go through the misery we cannot really tackle them well. It becomes so painful sometimes. But if we get to feel the miseries properly in our lives, we actually get a push to go and search for that happiness in life. Or else we do not move from our place. So in that way we kind of need a certain level of miseries in our lives. Each one of us, need actually if we want to grow and learn about what life actually is. 

Should our life be called ‘unsuccessful’, if our life is full of miseries ?

No life on this earth is a failure by any chance . Even if a lady has a miscarriage and the child dies in her womb, that life is not a failure. No life on this earth is actually a failure, its the greatest success that can be. And if we get lots of miseries in our lives and still continue living, then its actually a boon which we can feel in later years of our lives. We need to understand life from every perspective and that can lead us to the ultimate level of satisfaction and happiness of life. If all our questions in life gets a good answer through miseries and sad experiences. Then we are actually understanding life better and all our confusions and mysteries of life are getting solved one by one. So these miseries are great teachers for us to lead a healthy life afterwards. So we need them to become wiser. And even if the world calls you unsuccessful for having so much miseries in life, do not get carried away by their reactions, patiently bear the comments and the criticization just for your happiness in life. And one day when all your answers get solved one by one, someday, after getting through these miseries, You will know actual ‘ happiness’ means an how it feels and even ‘ looks like’..😊👍