Being pregnant biologically , it is very easy . But really hard to being a mother by emotionally it is very difficult . it is hard to say but it is true . Every one says that a mother is a most dedicated in the world , work her whole life for her family without payment . she suffer everything for her family . I strongly said that it is 100% wrong information. She lives her life with 100% regret , unhappiness , sad , depression and all other worst feeling with dirty life . But the reality is she didn't express it . so she is great . Nobody think she is human being , everybody consider as she is a working machine with 24 hours , no rest , no diseases , no pain . Always she is ok . is it ? But no . she is not ok. Now she sacrifice everything for her family .

When she born as a baby girl with brothers . Her family treated her as a second person by dividing a very small part of food to her . She is child , she ask her mother very innocently " mom why he got a big one ? ". Mother replied as he is men .  All the rules and regulations are starts from there . 
_  don't shout 
_ don't go with friends 
_ don't laugh loudly 
_ cook well 
_ clean the table after your brother finishes his food 
etc.

May be she is good in education, much better than his brother . But the real fate is just completing her minimum age for marriage she is forcefully married to a man . If she born as a girl should marry a man . Her identity don't ask them . And the family forcefully educate her brother for his future to get well job , well settled family and a beautiful wife . Why all these are not allowed for her ? Because she is women.  May be her father dies accidently , or mother otherwise her neighbour das may be die . so she should marry ? Every one want to see her marriage ok ?  How many gold put to her ? Any property ? Any car or bike ? Fine education and job is not necessary for her marriage . thank god very easy to get married as a women .

After marriage , all her routine will changes . all habits , likes , even dislikes . But ok fine . if her husband is rude or angry he can beat her . ok fine you are a lady.  It is part of life . After being a mother . it became more rough . Husband behave like he give something great to her . And he dont have any responsibility other than money . Her sleep, body, emotions everything changes . simply says become mad without reason. Everyone ask her "what are you doing, just house wife . is it ? "
Yes she is a wife in his house . mother of his babies . daughter of his mother and father . servant in his family . Remember she is everything in HIS family . At the end of her life , what she really has ? 
Oh god his wife dead . That is called ideal women the great mother and something big in the world . Finish with no identity . Born with a lot of dreams , live with sacrificing everything and dead with zero identity .