Marriage has been an institution in practice for time immemorial. This institution brings stability to society. In Bharatiya culture, marriage is given utmost importance. Here is Bharat; we regard marriage as tying two individuals for seven lifetimes.
Unlike in the west, our divinity manifests itself in both masculine and feminine forms. For centuries, our women kept fast on specific days for the well-being of their husbands.
But the madness of emulating the West strained our age-old traditions and threatened the time-tested institution called marriage. Today, young stars are more comfortable in a live-in relationship.
Today, our movies, TV shows, and web series have normalized extramarital affairs and made mockery of marriage.
With personal ambitions taking center stage and commitment and responsibility for the family taking backstage. So, more and more marriages are turning bitter, leading to divorce. Children and family members are the worst casualties of a failed marital relationship.
Today, I will try to explore a few ways to keep the relationship warm even after many years of togetherness.
1.Keeping Low Expectations: God has not created a perfect human being. So, we must learn the art of appreciating the good qualities of a human being and ignoring the flaws. Former American president John F. Kennedy said, “Ask not what your country can do for you; ask what you can do for your country." Like wise, if we always try to do things for our partner without much expectation of reciprocation, our partner will also appreciate our efforts. Keeping high expectations from your spouse leads to dissatisfaction. Instead, value every small gesture of your soul mate and develop feelings of gratitude.
2. Caring for your partner: Every individual perceives things in a different way, so everyone has their own emotional structure. We shall care for each other's feelings. Assuring at the time of grief and encouraging at the time of enthusiasm. Respecting each other's family and standing up in times of need go a long way toward cementing the emotional base of the relationship.
3. Extend a hand to each other's work: Respecting each other's job and helping them with their own expertise is a way parters can spend time together; it makes them more expressive and supportive. Suppose your spouse is a writer but a little weak in the marketing portion, and you complement with your expertise in marketing. This will increase friendliness in relation. Cooking food for family is one of the best ways you can express your love and care for them.
4.Spending time together : As time passes , in most cases couples turned to room mates. They become bored with the monotonous daily life. Spending quality time together is a must to avoid dullness in a relationship. In today’s busy and personalized world, time is scarce. So, it is good if couples can develop common areas of interest. Otherwise, partners shall watch a movie together or go on a weekend outing. Attending community gatherings during the festive season or on special occasions gives the opportunity to explore the many facets of each other's personalities.
Lastly, and most importantly, couples shall value the beautiful union of marriage and be grateful for just being in a relationship. Do not be a boring boss or couch potato at home; be playful and exuberant. I hope the best for every marriage.
