Hai dear friends.. Welcome  back to my candle monk  world. I am back with a new interesting  topic.

Today I am going to tell you how to be a good father and mother or what parents should not do to their children. So first of all, I am very happy and thank you all for your valuable time. So let's start our journey. 

We know that parenting is an ongoing learning experienc and process. As a learning parent, I would like to share my views and concepts about parenting. It does not abide by any rule book. It's a normal process. The funny part is that many parents expect their kids to be perfect in their behavior all the while following a wrong parenting approach. It may leads to many issues. So do what the child wants to do, not what you want the child to do. 

Here I present 10 negative parenting habits  (do's) to kick and 10 positive parenting habits (Don'ts) to keep in our life.

Do's

• Do seek to be real with your children.
• Do have patience and tolerance for the child's misbehavior and their small mistakes.
• Do behave like which kind of behavior you want from your child, which means be a role model.
• Spend time to interact with your children.
• Appreciate when needed.
• Do find ways to encourage and praise your children.
• Avoid harsh discipline .and teach positive discipline.
• Shower unconditional love.
• Always keep promises you make to your child.
• Give choices.

Don'ts 

• Don't over react to everything.
• Don't over criticize.
• Don't pamper your child excessively.
• Don't protect your kids from failure.
• Don't use fear as a parenting tool.
• Don't underestimate them.
• Don't be a poor listener.
• Don't threaten or punish children.
• Don't argue or fight with your partner in front of your children.
• Don't compare your child with other kids.                                                                                     Friends, these are my opinions as a learning parent whic I learned throughout my life.

The ultimate aim of all parents is to divert their child's behavior in a positive and attractive  manner. So they punish them. It's the time of rethink and change our views. So the aim and motive of this writing is to spread some positive lights to some of the  parenting ways to prevent wrong parenting styles.  Hope you guys will like my blog and keep supporting me. Like and share my blog and follow me on this platform. Thank you all for your valuable time. Catch you soon.