And they can go out into the world and connect with people in really good ways.
I am introverted, no doubt. I'm shy, I like to be alone and I'm good at it, and I avoid confrontation at all costs. I've always been like that, and that's fine with me. Introversion has its positives and negatives, and I guess extroversion does too. I wouldn't know, though. Lately, this is something that I've been thinking a lot about for a number of reasons. Probably because the words introvert and extrovert are used a lot these days.
While we are all often flooded with messages that we need to talk about and stand out in order to be successful, introverts can actually achieve much more if they hone their natural strengths. her, Beth Buelow, author of The Introvert Entrepreneur says:
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Here are some benefits of being introspective:
They are good listeners
According to Buelow, who identifies as an introvert, introverts are naturally good at active listeners. “We tend to be that friend or colleague you can turn to when you’re sad or have good news to share,” she says. “We can listen to you and be with you without turning our heads or turning our heads.”
Extroverts tend to jump into conversations before they fully understand what the other person has said. Not because they're selfish or careless, but because they process information interactively, says Laurie Helgoe, author of Dr. Introvert Power.
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Conversely, introverts process information internally, she says Helgoe. This ability allows us to listen, understand, and deliver thoughtfully considered insights in response.
they think before they speak
Introverts are usually more reluctant to speak than to listen, so they choose their words carefully, says Bureau. “We only speak when we have something to say, so we are more likely to make a difference with words,” she says.
That said, introverts, especially in fast-paced business environments, can sometimes take a little too long to formulate their thoughts before sharing them. The Bureau suggests that introverts should first be prepared to speak at meetings before they run out of time to talk about themselves. "Break your own ice," she says, advising introverts to share a few dates or opening speeches during peak meetings. Establish your presence early on before it gets intense.”
The only two people I'm happy to call (and only if texting isn't enough) are my mom and dad. With everyone, I text. I'm not even comfortable with these voice messages on WhatsApp. No. Not my thing. I have a few friends who always send voicemails instead of typing, and I always type my replies for them.