Don't you think every girl has a right to earn and feed for her self, But you know they don't. why ? because they accept the decision that their parents have decided for them. Considering the rural area parents or uneducated parents point of view if a girl is not good at studies she can't do anything better in her life. so its better for her to let her get married and depend on her husband to whole of her life…its common thing at rural area places….
Is it only can be the reason for a girl to get marry? Just because she is not good at studies…..NO! she shouldn't accept it. I accept that parents wants the good thing to happens to their daughter but pushing her to get married at the age of her to get education or to learn.At early age a girl don't even know the meaning of the marriage. But NO they don't get Chance to understand the meaning of life or what they actually wants from life, because they are so young to understand and most awful word that they accept called it as a faith.
Growing up to the rural area, i have seen many girls who get married at a their early age. But the parents reasons behind it are more like a girl have might done some teenage mistake that their family can't take it, or else they cant afford to feed their child or they cant afford a girl education with the boy and also besides this they don't want their girl to go out and earn for her self because what will the society say. I can understand that they do care about their girl but keeping her in a home and then pushing her to her husband house and let her be under the four walls to their whole life….Is this kinds of the life a girl should accept by the word called faith?
A rural area girl at age of 22,she is married to the man 10 years elder than her and she is mother of two children. How is it sounds to you? Is she really deserve that…..she liked the boy at the age of 18 and her parents got to know about it, so her parents decided to let her get married. Is that she worth to just get marry. I saw her after many years and i got to know that she just stays at home looking after her children and spending her life at one place.she was average at her academic but being an average is also not a crime, she might have done something good afterwards.But it breaks my heart to look at her like that.
I want the girls to understand and also to the parents to know that mistakes happens, its just experience of every single person….just for the simple mistake which happens at any age, BUT if a girl do some mistake she have to pay through all her life by getting married and spend her life by just doing household works and taking care of children . I am not saying that she shouldn'tdo it. but she can handle more than that and do multiple things …she also came into life to look around to know the world that god has created for them .…
Marriage is a very important part of the life but it just a part …life is something different .life is about to enjoy the journey and fight for happiness and not giving up…
