this is for the people who puts the others happiness as their first priority over their idiotic practices that have been followed throughout their lives and taught they are the right ones.

let's get started.

“ you're a girl, you're supposed to like to know how to do household works since you're gonna get married”

“you're a man, you aren't supposed to wear nail polishes nor makeup, you shouldn't cry. you gotta be that ”alpha" giving “the Man" vibes"

These are the words that we always pretty common words that we always hear but does it make that right/ okay to say / question so? 

the answer is A BIG NO.

a man can like pink. he can make over, wear nail polishes, mascara etc. he is allowed to do whatever makes him happy.

a woman can wear whatever she wants to, she can be unmarried, she is allowed to like/ say things that she wants to.

so where did it all start from? the answers are IGNORANCE and narrow MINDS of this society.

From ancient times, people are taught to follow certain stuffs and they gradually became the practices. the polarizations of this society has gone to the point, it doesn't allow the people to be happy.  everyone taught/follow certain practices which made them to judge the others who choose to live differently according to their wishes/ needs.

What is the exact solution? the exact solution is the right education and ignoring the sufferings of others. Being empathetic is vital.  The sufferings of others has to be understood like you want your own sufferings have to be understood by the others. 

 Trust me when people choose to live as they wish, it isn't an easy choice for them. they know they have to face the others, yet the brave souls as they are, they try to do whatever they want to.  that doesn't mean they aren't insecured about their choices.  So if you really are a human and prioritise their happiness over certain practices, the society will heal.  Encouraging words and accepting them for who they are will give them immense happiness that they deserve.  Never ever hurt/ judge them for the choices as you don't want to be judged for yours.  Just because they're unique, it doesn't make them any less important nor it has to be invalidated. 

let's heal this society together by accepting everyone for who they are/ who they want to be. Start by talking encouraging/comforting the persons who you know. trust me, it'd mean a lot to them.