Being in love with someone is I think the most beautiful feeling a person can have. When you are in love you see nothing except the person you love and start trusting him blindly which I think in some ways is a good thing because it is always said that “Trust is the backbone of any relationship .”
But what if the trust is broken? Does the relationship still work after that? These questions might be difficult to answer because every individual is different and works differently in their lives but what I'm gonna answer is totally based on what I have faced in my life.
When you encounter anyone, the second thing you start doing is trusting that person because the first one is always loving, maybe. That's how you carry forward your relationship. Everything is going well between the two and due to some circumstances, the trust between the two is broken. And you are left with either of the two choices - to end it or continue. And trust me the second choice is definitely not the good choice to make because it ends up in something called Toxic relationships. You will not realize that you are in a toxic relationship until and unless you accept the fact that you are in it. Acceptance is the most difficult part of it. You are so much in love with your partner that you keep on denying the facts in the name of love.
The very question that arises in your mind is- How toxicity starts when the trust is broken? One obvious reason is that the fear of losing your partner. You love your partner so much that you start fearing losing him/her. You don't trust and start thinking that they might leave you any moment. That's how toxicity is started in your relationship. But the bad thing about this is that you don't realize it's getting toxic because you just think that your partner loves you so they are getting possessive. That's the time you should get out of the relationship because this toxicity ends up creating the worst traumas of your life.
So it's very important to choose yourself over anybody no matter how much you love the person. That love is of no use if it ends up hurting you every day and puts you in constant guilt of breaking their trust. Because a relationship with no trust eventually leads to toxicity.