When nothing  goes as planned…when you continuously fail to achieve what you expected…when you get a feeling  of a loser in life…when you feel all doors are closed…when you feel the most unfortunate  of all…when you only see failures…when all your efforts go in vain…when you start losing hope…just hang on there…..yes.. just PAUSE….and tell yourself  that it's absolutely  OK to be in this situation…Sometimes things are beyond your control  and you really cannot do anything about it….so as Gaur Gopal Das says, whenever  in pain ask yourself this question…

Can you do anything about it?? If YES then why worry…if NO then why worry??

So basically worrying  doesn't  give  you any solution. So what should  one do in such situation?? Just go with the flow…yes…Trust the pace of time…Give time some time…Time is the best medicine…it heals everything…so be patient and never lose hopes…have faith  in your God or whoever  you believe the most… see in such situations  it is difficult  to keep yourself  positive  but remember…only you can heal yourself…you have  to motivate  yourself and find ways to deal with the situation…keep doing  your best without expecting  anything…when it's your time…things will fall in place  for you…practice  gratitude….be thankful  for the present moment  you are in…try to see good in everything around  you…focus on your thoughts  and affirm whatever  you want to achieve…even if it seems impossible  at this moment…you never know  when things will turn out to be good for you…so keep yourself  high always…after  all nothing  is permanent…even happiness….so relax…the situation  you are in today is also not permanent…and it will change soon…be optimistic…talk to yourself  everyday and train your mind…YOU have the power to manifest your desires…so hold on until you get there…you might  be very close to where you want to be…always analyze your past  when in difficult  times…and you would realise that you might have  come out of many such circumstances  in the past…isn't it??.. so this time also you would  overcome this situation…slowly, steadily  but definitely….so brush off all the negative  thoughts in your mind and focus on the result that you would  like to see…….

Happy Reading!!!

Regards,

Apurva