What is beauty? According to the google definition, Beauty is described as’ a feature of objects that makes these objects pleasurable to perceive’, which is a correct literal meaning of that word but have you ever thought what beauty actually is. When we say the word ‘beautiful’, what comes in your mind, a blue eyed , curly blonde haired, hour glass shaped body, fair complextion and that’s it. These are some stereotypical beauty standards of our society. But is it what beauty really mean. No, being beautiful is actually being you and being honest to yourself. To love yourself, to cherish yourself, and to feel confident in your skin, is what beauty actually mean. When we feel beautiful about ourselves, our world become beautiful because we start feeling good and positive. Just imagine that if everyone would become confident and start believing that I am one of a kind and I have beauty of my own then everyone will become beautiful automatically. If we will start making standards for our own not for the society, then this will make us work for ourselves in a positive direction. We will start doing make up for our own happiness not for hiding that pimple mark. We will start going to the gym for our fitness goals not because you want to look like that handsome hunk of your college. Beauty varies from person to person. Its like god’s personal and special gift to every individual. That’s why everyone looks different. Its really very important for us to know, cherish and love ourselves first. So the proper definition for beauty is that , a factor which makes every individual different, unique and pleasurable. And the person who thinks that he or she is beautiful and always make others feel the same is the most beautiful individual of the world. So, to become beautiful , we first need to feel beautiful, feel worthy, feel loved.

Talk to your favourite people and the people around you who always appretiates you. Interact with your closed ones more. But the one who is more close to you is you yourself. Its all about self love and feeling beautiful. Start giving youself more time and efforts. Grab that cheese burger, dont think about what people will say about you, do what you want. If you want to starve for your ownself, then surely you can control to urge to have that yummy stuff but if you are worrying about that creepy guy sitting next to you and passing awfull comments on you , just leave that cringe. You deserve better! someone who would genuinely motivate you to be you and help you to become a better person, will find the way to you, surely. Until then love yourself, motivate yourself. 

You want to grab that burger or you want to grab that dumble, should be your own decision. Make that extra funky wing, wear that torned jeans, use those face brightening creams, give yourself that hair cut, do whatever the hell you want, but only if you want and need to do so.