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You have seen the title...yaap that's exactly what I am gonna talk about today.
All our life, we all might have encountered criticisms either for being ugly, fat, skinny, quiet, or above all for being different. Everyday we hear questions like: 'why are you like this? Don't you have sense, Why are u so fat? try to eat a little, why are you so slim? Don't you eat anything, Why are you so silent, don't you know how to talk?, why are so you so stupid?'
And here I wonder, "don't they ever get bored?" " Maybe Not". “But why do they do this to every person on the go?” Maybe because they enjoy pestering others or just maybe, they were hurt in their past and are now getting revenge on us - that we can't say for sure. Little do they know that they are hurting others by doing so.
They label us for our flaws which we don't know exists until they told us so. For the flaws we didn't choose for ourselves, we are being crucified in the old times, present times and even in the upcoming times.
No one is born perfect. We all have our own unique flaws. No matter how much good sides we have, the society is just Keen on finding that one flaw and tormenting us nonstop.
But, what my question here is “Do we really have to bear it all... burying all those outrage in ourselves?” And the answer is simple, "No".
But there is one thing! You can choose either to rebel against the society and prove them wrong. Or simply, you can just ignore them. The latter seems simple, right? But that's the hardest part. Ignoring them and doing whatever you wanna do in your life takes a lot of courage and the risk is worth it. In doing so, you are proving them wrong indirectly. I believe that's where your true strength lies.
"Never forget what you are, the rest of the world will not.... Wear it like armor and it can never be used to hurt you" , as Tyrion Lannister once said. That's just what I have to say to you too.... Know your weakness/ flaw and wear it like an armor so that it can never be used against you.
So, don't anymore be that wimpy kid who broods over what other people say. Find your real strength, and go for it.
Thanks for reading!!!