Friendship, a beautiful experience in our lives. It is a wonderful experience, beautiful phase that we all enjoyed in our schools and colleges. It helps us to move from our bad and tough times with an ease. In friendship if you have true friends, who are always true to you and promise to you for being always true towards you are such a blessing.
But not all friendships remain same for all the time. No matter how strong your relationship is, how close friends you were, there are some factors that will create differences in those relations. An unhealthy friendship starts when one became judgmental, showing lack of trust, being selfish and so many other factors. We always use a word “BESTFRIEND” or “BESTIE” for the one who is most important from all the friends in the friend list. The reason for choosing him/her bestfriend can be many.
Maybe he/she was always there when we need, or else we were together from nursery/LKG classes, or that friend understands you better than anyone else or that friend supports you in your every decision, whether it is wrong or right, he is always with you. All other factors are still fine, but supporting your friend in every matter, in every situation, even if you know that he is wrong is not a sign of good thing. We know friends are meant to support you, to help you out in various decisions, but supporting you in wrong decisions can be proved as toxic for you in future.
Some of the bitter experiences we all have once in our friendships. Sometimes it is like we gave all our time, trust them with bottom of our heart but in return they have separate zone. They just listen to you and gave you a blank expression. In friendship, at least we can expect some good reaction, a helping hand for our emotions. But in return we will not receive the same that we were expecting.
Sometimes it is like your friend starts disliking you because you are the star of your class. Higher competition between students develops a feeling of hate in between each other. Not in all case because some are here to support you, for celebrating your success, but few are there who will don't like to see you succeed.
Some are backbiters. There are here with you most of the time, listen to all your concerns, help you out with the things, gossip with you but at last they were not your true ones. They will go to another group and gossip about what you told them. They are here to entertain other groups by molding those words what you said and make fun of your emotions by showing fake concerns.
Toxic Friendships are harmful. Be careful while making friends because you don't know who will hit you on your back one day.