a blessed emotion and fantastic relation"friendship",

a friend is some one who know u well and is still your friend,he is happy and vice versa in each others company ,he who is at times your partner in crime and also your load bearer when comes to punishments, there has already been so much said ,written aboout this beautiful relationship that ,i don't think i can certainly add up to it,which is new or not known, life without friends is just imaginable ,seems impossible,

so in short we all have our own beautiful set of memories about friends and friendship.But im not here to talk about all the ups and downs or loyalty and betrayal.the main purpose of mine for writting this blogg is to focus on the onething which we ignore,or rather compelled to ignore.Call it peer pressure,or how can we go against pressure,or what not , 

we all in our lives have done things just because our friends are doing it, or we have avoided or ignored things just because our friends have done the same,so lets just rewind our lives and try to think and remember those incidents and sitaution where we behaved just by the will of our friends ,we just went with flow,whether we had our consent or not,whether we actually wanted it that way or not,whether we wished for it or not,but yes we all have at least done few things if not many just because thats our friends or group,or gang was doing.Isn't it now try to think do you regret doing or regret not doing depending upon situation .yes its hard to admit but there will be such things which we did and now have a different opinion about it,it happens cause we grow with age ,gain maturity ,knowledge,wisdom,experience,

and its obvious to re think about the decisions we took,but its not about our individual response,its about the peer,the group,its about the friends that we represent,so based on it, we will find that lot of things we should have done at that time cause we wanted to,and we had our consent but we ignored,and lot of things which we never wanted to at that time also,nor we wished but we did,that we regret today,cause that not who we are as an individual,not our style,not our ways of thinking and behaving.

this all happens cause of lack of conscious living,not prioritizing ourselves ,not believing in our won decisions and thoughts so taking up to flow with the wind,see no matter how close or best,or jaan se payra your friend may be,but after a span of time in life your lives will change ,your ways will take different routes,and then ull get into another ,relationships,and you'll get married and so on,,and your priorities will change and based on then situations and conditions you'll take decisions ,so there is no harm in rejecting or accepting to do things even if your friends agree or disagree,cause at the end its your life and will remain so till end, only you are responsible for it,only you will have to go through its ups and down ,ok your friends may support you or help you but eventually you will have to experience it first hand.no body will live your life on your behalf,so start living a conscious life and take decisions by prioritizing your wants and needs,just dont do things under any kind of group or peer pressure .

with that thought, ill sign off ,but do think abou it ,specially youngsters in school and college ,