When its usually comes about, talking about compliments , the first emotion or feeling we feel or perceive is a “GAIETY” one. But then it can differ from person to person ,it maybe be different for the person with high self esteem or worth ; likewise the other person residing into the capsule of low self esteem and self worth.

Compliments can feel uncomfortable.We crave validation and we want people to like us, but when others voice what they like about us,what we're wearing or how we carry ourselves, why is the KNEE-JERK reaction to cringe?To act dodging, Are we afraid of seeming like narcissists?. Maybe we don't want to come off cocky. But why should we punish the compliment largesser  by denying such an act of kindness? after all loving our flaws comes first , accepting the way we are ; that's when we can appreciate and giving compliment  to someone.

After  having an insight about the fact of - receiving compliments & complimenting others,  the compliment meaning is actually a loving gesture , welcoming , friendly bond which concrete's you and the other person. likewise complimenting others gives you a feeling of self content feeling, because we are full of self acceptance and love, I believe.Both of these criteria's don't come oozing; for some it maybe inbuilt, for few it takes year's of practicing or even an apocalypse.Not accepting is our way  of maintaining and perpetuating our negative self talk, We reject the notion  that we might be ‘actually good’. Using ‘receiving compliments’ as a medication will help us detox the low self esteem and boost our self confidence.Receiving compliments maybe for someone who writes a poetry beautifully or complementing someone for beauty or for a beautiful piece of writing

Here are some ways you can put into practice like a verbal workout for accepting compliments :

• ‘Thankyou’(yes it is simple as that)
• A smiling emoticon( for responding socially) and  writes a compliment.
• A genuine smile ( in person)
• ‘I appreciate you noticing that thing about me’.
• ‘I’m glad I could help'.

~ A note before I end this blog : 

“ Complementing some random person  , wherever you could  like a bus-station, a train companion, some random person passing by on the streets, could make their day bright . That person, could be having a bad day, an interview, a terrible heartbreak ; so just an act of kindness is required. You wont or they wont meet you in another time but surely will remember you  at the end, 

• you earn a title  “ CROWN OF KINDNESS” and no money or fame will be registered. And that is the power of kindness.

Hope you all liked this content, have a great day Folks! until the next blog.