When a child born to a family,he/she doesn't know anything about his/her parents, gradually time passes,everybody grows and the child also but he/she have believe in parents that they will always support him/her….they also do in every situation,in every case,they never let their child alone,but still there is lack of discussion between parents and children….By time passes the child grows,make many friends and by focusing in a carrer and heading towards it,a guy come to his/her life,whom he/she thought to be a good friend and when time passes they become lover in most of the cases…..They are happily enjoying their life,and moving towards a beautiful future where they live together with their family with permission of both families and marrying each other….
But fortune had another climax in their life….within a few moments their life changed, all their dreams scattered, confidence break down….when their parents don't support them due to any reason..
Who is wrong….what the fault and who is the culprit for this situation….Can u say this????
Everyone is right at their place ….how a lover break other believe and confidence of other person who has no relationship with him….and how a child will break their parents trust for whom he/she come into this world, and get identification for them …..how one should break..
Parents aren't wrong ….they afraid of loosing their child and child respect in society…..and child afraid of loosing happiness forever in the life……
Sorry to say but in 90% case the main culprit role plays by the society …..by adjoining different rules be it that religion based or caste based……
Actually we have to keep out all the superstitions from our mind and atleast once the parents and child discuss about themselves and try to understand their feelings and problems they faced by keeping a relation what they don't want…..just once think about your child who always do everything for your happiness….
Is the child right by marrying without their permission of parents….but this is not their fault …is finding and fighting for their happiness wrong…
Just last one thing saying be friendly with your parents/child….so that no one will hurt…. don't be a listner of society…be a true and pure person..
Everybody is pure soul….we have to identify that …..Respect your parents and never let their trust break down …just accept your parents decision and you will be happy ..may it hurt you for some times but at last you will be happy…..if you loose your love then you can gain friendship,but if you loose family you can't ever gain it….
At last thanks .
