Annyeonghaseyo! (Hi)
We all have experiences love once in our life. And we all have different meanings of love, isn't it? For someone it's friendship, for other's it is a lifetime promise. But, do we know the exact meaning of love? Do we know what comes before loving someone else?
You need to love yourself first to love someone. You need to be a little selfish, when we love ourselves we learn what is the exact meaning of love. Love is not the name of harming ourselves when someone rejects us, when someone doesn't listen to us. If someone is Unbothered by your tears or by your absence just leave it. If love comes with a price of your self respect, believe me it's not worth it. In love you need to be respectful to your partner, you need to understand that everyone has their own private life. Being in love is most beautiful feeling. When you love someone, you feel like that's it… this little feeling had my whole life. Everyone has their own meanings and versions of love. But according to many books or articles , when you deeply love someone you need to go through the 7 stages of love, and there is only 2 percent people who understand their exact meaning and these are :- 1. ATTRACTION - When we fall in love, the first feeling develops is attraction, when there is something which keeps on bothering you about that person. That feeling is called attraction. 2. ATTACHMENT - This feeling develop when we feel attached to someone, when we feel that this person belongs . With whom we can find comfort easily without any hesitation or awkwardness. 3. TRUST - When someone comes so close to us that we can trust them with our heart in and out and we know that feeling will not get broken. 4. LOVE - When we start liking someone with our whole heart and we do not expect that, that feeling will be reciprocated or not, we just truly, deeply, honestly like someone, that feeling turn out to pure love. 5. WORSHIP - The 5th stage is worship . It means when our love is pure. When there is no greed, when there is no lust , when someone touches your soul. Then it becomes worship for us. 6 . PASSION - Love is good to a limit , love becomes passion when you feel that just to protect my love i will do anything for his/her. You need to passionate and courageous enough to say that I love him/her , without any fear. 7. DEATH - When only death can separate you from your loved one, and you don't fear about dying but you only feel fear to loose your lover, then your love becomes successful.
For me love is just a feeling, don't stop loving if someone break your heart. Being in love is just a another feeling but for others it's a most courageous feel to be in. Love is not like, that it has to be happened to you on a given time period. It just happened, when it has to be. Don't stop and wait for someone to love you, keep going when it has to be happened, it will happen. Love is love and that's it, but if you truly love someone don't expect anything not even that this feeling will get reciprocated or anything else.
It's my opinions and I know everyone has their own versions. So let me know what you all think about it.
Till then take care and be safe. Bye❣️
